Uncertainty, frustration, unable to cope up with life and its problems, helplessness, and not finding any answers to questions arising in life and living will lead you to face the most crucial juncture in your life - identify crises. You will start questioning and doubting about your self and your identity with respect to the society, life, and living. You want to know who you really are and what your real purpose in life is. Up until now you thought you have to become somebody other than who you really are, now you start getting a feeling that you are missing something and you do not know what it is. You want to find out who you really are. You are doubting yourself. What you thought about yourself was not you at all in real terms and find yourselves in the midst of a identity crises in your life at some point or the other.
You will find your self in this position in life because you do not relate your self with the past, with your origin, the base point of all this. You were trying to create someone other than your true self which has lead you to this present situation in life of losing your own identity. You have lost yourself in the crowd. Now you have put a firm stop to your movement of going forward in life and want to know who you really are before embarking further up in the journey of life.
Knowing your own self about who you are, what you can be and what you cannot be will make you come out of your identity crises.
The crises was brewing all along your journey and now you have realized that finally you have reached a stage in life where you find yourself in a soup. You have reached a dead end in your life. This crises of your has arisen mainly because you did not accept your self and your true being. You always thought and was made to think by the people around you that you should become somebody in your life and you do not know who that somebody is. You cannot be somebody other than who you really are. You are you and you cannot be somebody. You took a wrong step and wrong approach towards life in the beginning and hence bearing the consequences of it by reaching the wrong destination in the form of your identity crises. If you had accepted your true self in beginning of your life you would not have faced any crises at all in life let alone the identify crises at the very least.
When you were born you were born 100% and nothing less. Just because you started thinking that there is something less of your self and so you took the first step to embark on a journey of your life to reach your current position of identity crises. You lost your self in the journey and you are searching for your own self. You became the missing person with messed up identity. You lost the meaning of life and the purpose of living itself. You just became a drifting person not knowing who you really are and where you are going. Now the life has become meaning less and worth less because you lost the biggest thing in life - your identity. You have lost yourself in the maze of life without knowing the way out of it.
Spirituality is all about knowing your true self. It is a very intrinsic journey inside of your own self. It is about knowing your default state and your default program which you have to adhere to, to be your true self. You need to embrace the true essence of life to realize your original identity and be so the rest of your life. You have to realize that you cannot be other than who you really are. You are not somebody or nobody, you are always a unique being with your own identity tag. Every person born on this very earth are unique and beautiful in their own sense.
Nature creates unique creations with a distinct identity of their own. It does not replicates its creations, no way. There is a stamp of uniqueness in everything it creates on this earth. So every person born on this earth has an identity of his/her own, it is just a matter of time for each one of them to realize it and then accept it with true gratitude and be themselves.
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